If you have been asked by a friend or relative to be a groomsman at their wedding, you are probably feeling excited and flattered. But you may also be a bit confused or even anxious, as you are unsure what groomsmen do. By learning more about the role, you can look forward to the big day.
What is a groomsman?
A groomsman is part of the wedding party. Just as bridesmaids support the bride, groomsmen support the groom. As the name suggests, groomsmen are usually male, but this is not always the case, with some grooms asking their sisters or female friends.
What do they wear?
What groomsmen wear will depend on the style of the wedding, ranging from smart-casual to formal wear. Typically, it will be a suit or tuxedo. Female groomsmen might wear wedding guest dresses from a specialist supplier like https://ohelloclothing.com/collections/wedding-guest-dresses in a colour to match the groom’s suit.
Before the wedding
In the runup to the wedding, groomsmen will shop for their outfits. They will also attend the stag do, perhaps helping the best man to organise it. If the groom needs any help with any of the wedding organisation, he may ask the groomsmen for their support.
On the wedding day
The groomsmen get ready with the groom and accompany him to the venue. There, they will have photos taken and greet guests. During the ceremony, they will stand beside the groom as he says his vows.
At the reception, they can answer questions from guests. They do not usually make a speech, although it is possible the groom will ask them to say a few words. Most of all, they are there to support the groom on his big day, soothing any nerves he may have.
At the end of the wedding, they may be responsible for transporting gifts from the venue to the car or home of the bride and groom.
Different weddings may have unique duties for the groomsmen. But whatever they are, get into the spirit and have fun, helping to make it a day to remember.